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Pick your role and dive in — every question below is answered in plain English. If something is missing, the Contact page has three ways to reach us.

Introduction

Secret Party is an event platform that helps people who are throwing events manage invitations, correspondence, RSVP lists, and ticketing. Unlike other ticket platforms, we specialize in semi-private events using a built-in word-of-mouth invitation system to ensure that the people coming to an event are hand-selected to be a good vibes-and-values fit for that gathering. Our goal is to help facilitate events that scale intimacy and community in an authentic way. When someone is invited to an event using Secret Party, the person who invited them is visible to the organizer, so there is a chain of accountability that lets incidents get addressed and helps keep communities safe. When you attend a private or semi-private event through Secret Party, you can have confidence that you were very specifically chosen to be included in that event, and so was everyone else who will be attending. What we are not: the hosts of the party or a production house. We help a wide variety of organizers, producers, and hosts manage their events. If you want them to turn up the bass or serve more red velvet cupcakes, please write the event host directly.

Good news: as a guest, you usually don’t need an account at all. Secret Party invitations and tickets work straight from the link in your invitation email — you can RSVP, buy tickets, and manage transfers without ever signing up. Accounts are really for organizers, and right now signing up is invite-only: you’ll need a referral code from an existing organizer. If you have one, select “Sign Up” in the top corner of the SecretParty.io homepage, enter your referral code, then add your email, first name, last name, and a password, and agree to the Privacy Policy and Terms. We’ll send you an email with a link to finish creating your account.

Invitations from Secret Party can end up in your inbox in one of two ways: Either you were invited to an event by the person hosting it, or another guest of that event invited you. Your invitation will indicate whether it was the host or someone else who invited you, and who they are. Please note: Secret Party is not the host, we are an invitation and ticketing service.

Ticketing and Attendance

For public events, all you need is a link to the event page - at the bottom of that page, you’ll find an option to purchase tickets, up to the per-order limit the organizer has set for that event. Select the type and quantity of tickets you’d like to purchase, click “check out” and input your payment information and contact details. If an event is invitation-only, the option to purchase tickets will only appear at the bottom of the event page when you follow the link in your invitation email. If you have arrived at an event page and can’t find an option to purchase tickets, that may be because the event is sold out, you have already reached the maximum allowable purchases for that event, or because the event page itself is public but the guest list is invitation-only. Sometimes, an event will be invite-only but someone affiliated with the event will send you a special link that lets you generate an invite for yourself. If you get one of these links you’re in luck: you can get tickets, you just need to register first by adding your name and email address. Once you’re registered, you can follow the invite link from your email to make a purchase.

Some events let you choose what you pay within a range the organizer sets — a sliding scale. When that option is available, you’ll see the price range and a control to move the amount up or down; just set the price you’d like before you check out. Sliding-scale pricing is unlocked by a promo or invite code, so if you were given one for the event, make sure it’s applied first.

This is determined by the event host. Most events, by default, do not allow refunds.

After a refund is initiated, Stripe submits refund requests to your bank or card issuer. You will see the refund as a credit approximately 5-10 business days later, depending upon the bank.

This is determined by the event host. Many events allow for ticket transfers, some events allow transfers only when the recipient already has an invitation to the event, and some private or more intimate events may not allow transfers at all. When ticket transfers are enabled, you can transfer your ticket by opening the ticket in your email address, clicking “view tickets” and filling out the ticket transfer field. This will prompt a dialogue box: “To transfer your ticket first enter the recipient’s information below. You will need to confirm this transfer in your email before the transfer is active. Once confirmed the ticket recipient must complete the transfer by following the link in their notification email. Any changes will invalidate the previous transfer code. If the recipient does not have an invitation to this event a new one will be created with your invitation as the sponsor.” Follow the instructions on that page, check your email, confirm that you do indeed want to transfer your ticket, and once you have they will be able to confirm receipt of said ticket in their email. You will have the option to pass along your ticket for free, or for them to purchase it from you at-cost.

Yes, if neither date has passed and there is still availability on the alternate date, we would be happy to exchange your ticket for another ticket of equal value.

TL;DR, you may not be able to. Organizers have a lot of control over how many tickets a given person can purchase, and how many invitations they can send. If you were given invitation privileges for an event, you can use those to invite more people - these are usually limited in volume, so use them wisely. If you know other people attending the event, you may be able to get additional unused invites from them, or, contact the organizer directly to see if you can get your friends added to their list. Different event organizers have different onboarding processes for new guests.

This depends on the privacy settings of the specific event. There are a few ways you may be eligible to invite friends to an event: 1. Pre-Sale Invitations: these are invitations you can send out prior to making a purchase. If pre-sale invitations are enabled, there will be space for you to send out invitations near where you have the option to purchase a ticket, and you can send these at any time. 2. Extra Invitations: these are invitations generated by a ticket sale. Some, but not all events give ticket-holders additional invitation capabilities, which you’ll also find on your invitation link, but they’ll only appear after you’ve obtained a ticket. 3. +1s: Some events don’t allow any invitations, but they will allow you to purchase more than one ticket when you check out. Please note: The top of every invitation reads “FOR YOUR EYES ONLY” because your invitation is unique and meant for you. You can think of it as your Secret Party password since we don’t require guests to register to get tickets. That means even for public events or events where there is a space to invite your friends, we will still remind you not to forward or share your invitation email.*

Event Information

If the host made the location "viewable by ticket holders only" the address will appear in your email titled "🎟️ Tickets for [name of event]" guests receive at the time of purchase/RSVP, check that email. Some Organizers prefer to announce the location via a follow up email closer to the event date, so if it isn’t in your ticket email, that’s the most likely circumstance. Reach out to the host if the event is happening soon and you can’t find the address.

In order to get in touch with the organizer for your event, simply reply to your invitation email, or find their contact information in the footer for that email, across from where you will also find contact information for Secret Party’s technical support.

I really wish we could help you stay hydrated friend, please contact the event host directly to see if they have a lost and found. This is unfortunately out of our grasp.

Event Discovery

We get this one a lot! Discovering Secret Party’s semi-private events comes down to knowing someone who knows the host — that word-of-mouth, invitation-first approach is the whole point. The best way to hear about more events is to stay connected to the communities and organizers you already vibe with; when someone in your circle throws something, an invitation is how it’ll reach you.

Support

Your inbox is something you should have control over. At the bottom of each email you receive from Secret Party, you’ll find the text* “**You are receiving this email because you were personally invited to this event. If you do not wish to be contacted you may opt-out of future emails.**” *If you follow the “opt-out” link you’ll arrive at a page with some options: opting out of emails about that specific event, opting out of emails coming from that specific host, or opting out of any invitations sent through Secret Party in general …we recommend not doing that third one so you don’t accidentally miss something important like a wedding invitation someone decides to send through our website, but the power is in your hands, where it should be.

It will show up as SECRET PAR(partial name of event) with the merchant info as HTTPSWWW.SECR,CA

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